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  • Sep 4, 2025

Food Truths that no one talks about

It’s no wonder we are having such a hard time with self-care, we were never taught to pause, reflect, and challenge ourselves and others to find out what’s working and not. Instead we’ve learned how to distract and mind-numb, removing all critical thought. Certainly there are pros in this approach since socially, it’s best not to “Rock the boat”. However, it does also come at a price in the food world, as it hinders all self-awareness and normalizes discomfort as a result. We’re happy to be defiant in this case and break out of social norms to spark Food Truths that finally align with your wellbeing. Let’s scratch this itch by reading this article to see what’s possible in your health journey.

We’re all told what to do because that’s just what you’re supposed to do. And if you ever questioned it, you were probably met with disapproval. Being curious or challenging the norm? Often swept under the rug as socially unacceptable. Unfortunately, this kind of teaching comes at a cost. It chips away at our critical thinking skills, the very skills that are essential in every area of life, especially when it comes to our relationship with food.

The Dangers When Critical Thinking Is Absent

Most of us are creatures of habit. We're shaped by our environment, so it’s no surprise that much of our social etiquette, mannerisms, and even our eating behaviors are learned. There’s a certain comfort in doing what everyone else does. It’s easy to follow the “norm.” But sometimes, following the crowd leads to misalignment. We start replacing what feels off with what we’re told is normal discomfort—or worse, we go numb. That disconnection? It may be why some of us turn to food in the first place, for comfort, happiness, satisfaction. Ironically, it might also be the very reason we stay stuck in an unhealthy cycle, writing it off as “just how it is” or chalking it up to “family genetics.”

Exhibit A: Here are a few learned habits as result...

  • “Finish everything on your plate”, even when you're already full.

  • Buying fast food or processed snacks because it’s “cheaper”, but what’s it costing you in the long run?

  • Loading the shopping cart with treats to curb hunger, rather than understanding what your body actually needs.

The Plot Thickens: Confusion in the Name of Self-Care

Now we’re told to prioritize self-care. But what does that even look like?

  • Do we fast for long hours?

  • Do we cut out entire food groups?

  • Do we follow trendy diets that work for a while, then leave us burnt out and back at square one?

Every path seems to bring a new challenge. And when we hit a wall, we return to what’s familiar: emotional eating, stress snacking - back to the norm of discomfort as a result.

How It All Ends (or Really, How It Begins)

It starts with this: Pay attention; Become challenging. Ask yourself:

  • What’s actually working for me

  • What foods or approaches empower me, and which ones don’t?

The questions you ask are the foundation of true ownership over your well-being. They help you build awareness, clarity, and ultimately, sustainable health habits that become second nature over time. The truth is: you are in charge of you!

Need Support? We’ve Got You.

At Nutrition Custom Care, we’re here to help you stay accountable, prompt questions to guide your journey, and keep your wellness goals on track. We know navigating the health and medical world isn’t always easy. For many, it’s frustrating and overwhelming. That’s why our mission is to make A Health Approach Simple. Book a discovery call at https://www.nutritioncustomcare.com/ and let’s practice personalized strategies to help you make real progress!

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